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Our Family Driving Agreement
A voluntary agreement between a parent/guardian and a new driver, to practice safely and build good habits together.
This is not a legal document and not a substitute for your state's licensing requirements. See the note at the bottom.
Between
Parent / guardian: ______________________________
Teen driver: ______________________________
Date we're starting: ____________________
Permit / license info
State: ____________________
Date permit issued (optional): ____________________
We'll follow our state's official rules for supervised driving. We'll look those up together and check them if anything changes.
What we're working toward
Our practice goal (hours, timeframe, or milestones — set what works for your family):
What "ready to drive on my own" looks like to us:
We're aiming for confident, safe driving — not just a number of hours.
The rules we agree on
Check the ones you're keeping and fill in the blanks. Add your own at the bottom. These are your family's choices.
Phone & distractions
- ☐ Phone stays on silent / out of reach while driving.
- ☐ No texting, scrolling, or unnecessary calls while the car is moving.
- ☐ Directions/music are set before we start driving, or a passenger handles them.
Our added rule: ____________________________________
Seatbelts
- ☐ The car doesn't move until everyone is buckled — driver and every passenger.
Passengers
- ☐ Number of passengers allowed while practicing / after licensing: ______
- ☐ Who is / isn't allowed as a passenger at first: ____________________
(Many states limit teen passengers early on — we'll check ours.)
Speed & following distance
- ☐ Drive at or under the speed limit, and slower when conditions call for it.
- ☐ Keep a safe following distance, especially in traffic, bad weather, or at higher speeds.
Our added rule: ____________________________________
Never driving impaired — and a safe ride home
- ☐ Never drive after any alcohol or drugs, and never ride with a driver who has.
Call me — no questions asked.
If you ever feel unsafe driving, or your ride has been drinking or using drugs, call me for a ride. I'll come get you, no lecture and no punishment in that moment. Getting home safe comes first, every time.
Contact to call/text: ____________________
Driving conditions
When we're each ready for these — decide together as skills grow:
Night driving: ____________________________________
Rain / snow / bad weather: ____________________________________
Highways / faster roads: ____________________________________
Heavy traffic or unfamiliar areas: ____________________________________
What each of us agrees to
Parent / guardian — I'll:
- ☐ Ride along and coach calmly, without yelling.
- ☐ Be available for practice as consistently as I can.
- ☐ Model the habits I'm asking for when I'm driving.
- ☐ Keep this about learning, not just pointing out mistakes.
Teen driver — I'll:
- ☐ Follow this agreement and our state's rules.
- ☐ Be honest about where I feel unsure or need more practice.
- ☐ Speak up if I'm tired, distracted, or not up for driving that day.
- ☐ Take feedback as help, not criticism.
If something goes wrong
Mistakes are part of learning. This is about what we agreed to ahead of time — not deciding in a heated moment.
If a rule is broken or an unsafe choice is made, here's what we've agreed happens:
First time: ____________________________________
If it continues: ____________________________________
Some families choose things like a pause on solo driving, extra supervised practice, or revisiting a specific skill together. Choose what fits your family — the point is that it's calm, fair, and known in advance.
The safe-ride clause above is separate: calling for a safe ride is never something to be penalized for.
Logging our practice
- ☐ We'll keep track of our supervised driving practice together, so we can see progress and know when we've met our goal.
Many families keep a simple log of each drive — date, time, conditions, and length. We use the Clocked app to log our supervised hours in one place and export a clean summary when we need one, but any method that works for you is fine.
Checking in
We'll review this agreement together every: ____________________
(for example, weekly at first, then monthly)
We can update anything here as skills grow and confidence builds — this is meant to change with you.
Signatures
We've read this together and agree to it.
Parent / guardian: ______________________ Date: __________
Teen driver: ______________________ Date: __________
This Family Driving Agreement is a voluntary tool to help parents and teens practice safely and communicate clearly. It is not a legal contract, not legal advice, and does not replace or satisfy any driver-licensing requirement. Supervised-driving hour requirements, permit rules, and licensing steps vary by state and change over time — always verify your current requirements with your official state agency (such as the DMV, DOR, or Secretary of State). Following this agreement does not guarantee any outcome, including passing a driving test or licensing exam.